Hey, different girl anon trying to make it in the music world. I want to work as a TM or just a general manager. I am also friends with some bands but sometimes I feel like they only want to sleep with me. I don't want that, I'm just trying to network, not bang a bunch of band dudes. How do I show people I'm there to work, not sleep around? This is probably a stupid question but no matter how hard I'm working they always seem to just see me as an object.
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Look no matter how hard you work guys will be guys, it happens to all girls when they are starting, even to the really freaking ugly ones. I don’t know one girl that has not been hit on on tour but as long as you keep doing your thing (working) it will slow down a bit word goes out that you’re the real deal. Noticed that I used will slow down and not stop.

  1. zoeondrums said: I can totally relate. I’m a girl, and I play the Drums. You just have to prove yourself. I’ve always tried to be just ‘one of the guys.’
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